“Shine so bright that your warmth can brighten others’ life”
“Authenticity over perfectionism”
I follow these 4 mantras of life –
- Find and know yourself
- Spend more time with yourself and observe your actions, reactions and behaviour. You will develop a bonding with yourself and understand your personality in depth.
- Who you are at present plays a very important role in what you will be in the future. So focus on your actions and thinking today as it will develop a framework for who you want to be in future.
- Figure out your strengths and weaknesses. You can flaunt and use your strengths to your advantage and work on your weaknesses to grow as an individual.
- Seek genuine feedback and take it with an open heart as constructive criticism. Many find it difficult to take criticism positively but it helps a lot in developing one’s personality. It improves your interaction and relationship with others.
- Accept yourself the way you are
- Acknowledge your reality. You are who you are. Accept it. It will boost your self confidence and give you an additional quality.
- Celebrate your strengths and flaunt them. Use them to your benefit. Keep doing what you are good at.
- Own your mistakes and forgive yourself. Take responsibility of your actions whether good or bad. Let go of any grudges and negativity in you by forgiving yourself and others.
- Getting rid of past regrets takes you a step closer to self acceptance and self love.
- Always remember that your happiness is unconditional. No situation should take away your own happiness and sadness should be a phase that gets over quickly. Your happiness depends on yourself.
- Love yourself
- Try to be more mindful
- Keep giving yourself a positive pep talk. It really boosts your confidence and helps you elevate your personality.
- Practise good self care and nourish yourself. Taking care of yourself will help you develop a bond with your physical self and allow you to accept your flaws and love your qualities.
- Protect yourself by identifying and letting go of fr-enemies. Fr-enemies are those friends that pretend to be your friends while they are your enemies. They will only cause negativity and disturbance in your environment so avoid them!
- Always have a goal you look forward to. Move forward slowly towards it. And when you accomplish it you will love yourself even more.
- Allow yourself to evolve and elevate
- Push yourself out of your comfort zone slowly. Growth lies beyond your comfort zone.
- Always give more than you get. Never have a tit for tat attitude as most people do. Always be a good individual and give unconditionally, irrespective of what you get. Good will come back to you in different forms.
- Learn to say NO if something doesn’t match with your values. We have been taught to say NO from the beginning when we feel uncomfortable. The same goes with your values and ethics. If you are uncomfortable in breaking them, learn to rebel.
- Learn to present yourself according to your role and wishes. Always have the goal of an elevated life.
